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Mental Health Awareness Month: days of atrocity & sorrow

May is Mental Health Awareness Month. It’s almost over. On the way out, America got flung into inchoate grief, in the aftermath of a school shooting in Uvalde, Texsas, where an 18-year-old gunman murdered 19 children and 2 adults. This came 10 days after another mass shooting in Buffalo, New York, where an 18-year-old gunman murdered 10 people, most of them Black. And it came in the midst of yet another spike in the Covid-19 pandemic, now in its third year.

There’s nothing comforting to say. Any words in that direction would be a lie. The Texas shooting caved us. Beyond the grisly, abhorrent nature of the crime itself, it laid bare our mass unrest, mass vulnerability, interconnected suffering, and political paralysis. The left seeks stronger gun laws. The right blames outside forces. The voters yell but know deep down nothing will ever change (at least not in our lifetimes).

I lost my mind as a teenager: years 18 into 19. My mind broke out in a harsh rash of OCD. I tried psychology, tried psychiatry, cognitive behavioral therapy, homeopathy. Nothing worked ‘til I tried energy healing. I went in a skeptic; I came out better. To this day, I’ll turn to reiki when I need help. Meditation is another invaluable daily tool.

But here’s another, and I recommend it when addressing those of us who suffer mentally. It shouldn’t be that hard to find us, for as of late 2020, half of us (50%) were anxious and almost half of us (44%) were depressed. In my lifetime, those numbers have never been so high. But in truth, the most shocking thing about them is that they’re so low.

Anyway: the tool: I recommend being candid. People with mental health issues (though I can’t speak for all of us) tend to appreciate a candid touch. We see through the lie. We don’t prize bullshit. Platitudes. Well wishes. Hallmark cards. Disney messaging. None of this tends to work within our world.

Reason being, we’re living in ancient times. I don’t mean the mentally unwell; I mean all of us. It’s just that the mentally unwell are more aware of it. Our brains are in turbulence. We’ve been brought down to basics. When the sponge organ in the center of your skull isn’t working, you tend to realize how far we still have to go in terms of technology, in terms of medicine, of progress, self-awareness, plain basic knowledge. 

The mind is a mystery. Curing it, moreso. Yes, there are ways and there are tools, and I’m grateful for the ones I have, but today I say the pathway to mental health must cut clean across the forest of truth. 

I don’t mean bluntness; I mean candidness. Reality. Honesty. Level with us. Level with yourself. Admit when it’s bad. Admit when the sun’s down. Admit when there are no solutions. Admit when we’re all in a corner. Admit when we’re being tested. Admit unprecedented times. 

Admit our widespread social media addiction. Admit that everyone you know’s addicted to their phone. Admit that that alone is a public health crisis. Admit that our apps prey upon our bare humanity, wanting us to engage—to hunger for approval. 

Admit that we’re lost. Admit that we’re scared. Admit the road is cold and lonely, low and dark. Admit the pale light of morning might be delayed. Admit it often gets worse before it gets better (if it even gets better at all). Admit the dying have questions that remain unanswered. Admit your own pettiness. Own anger. Hatred. Fear. Revulsion. Directed at others. Aimed at yourself.

It’s OK. It’s an aspect of the healing process. ‘Cause the truth beats out the lie every time. And a thousand years from now, whoever’s still here (if anyone) will see us as the ancient ones. The wanderers. The ones who didn’t know. 

The only way we can speak from now to then—the only way our truth and our essence might manage to make the epic thousand-year crawl—is to be candid about our present predicaments. About who we are. And what we face. How bad it is. 

How far we have to go.

We’re not enlightened. But we’re enlightened enough to know we’re not. It’s OK. Go slow. Times have always been ancient. People have always suffered, same as we.

Let this truth crawl all over you, now and always. For though it both hurts and comforts, though it both soothes and stings, it can carry you calmly, ‘til morning. 



Eric Shapiro
Eric Shapiro
Eric Shapiro is a writer & filmmaker. As a screenwriter, he’s won a Fade In Award and written numerous feature films in development by companies including WWE, Mandalay Sports Media, Game1, and Select Films. He is also the resident script doctor for Rebel Six Films (producers of A&E’s “Hoarders”). As a journalist, Eric’s won a California Journalism Award and is co-owner and editor of The Milpitas Beat, a Silicon Valley newspaper with tens of thousands of monthly readers that has won the Golden Quill Award as well as the John Swett Award for Media Excellence. As a filmmaker, Eric’s directed award-winning feature films that have premiered at the Fantasia Film Festival, Fantastic Fest, and Shriekfest, and been endorsed by PETA (People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals). Eric’s apocalyptic novella “It’s Only Temporary” appears next to Mary Shelley’s “Frankenstein” on Nightmare Magazine’s list of the 100 Best Horror Novels of All Time. He lives in Northern California with his wife, Rhoda, and their two sons.


  1. “half of us (50%) were anxious and almost half of us (44%) were depressed.” The reason is articles like yours expressing doom and gloom and constantly telling “The sky is falling! The sky is falling” using verbal terrorism to scare people. Quit crying “Wolf” all the time, put issues in perspective and people will get the truth, relax, and media credibility will be lifted off the bottom of the barrel.

  2. Yes! Truth! Admit. – don’t hide. Our populace has an all too familiar problem of “nothing to see here.” There’s everything to see! Tell the truth and get it out before someone goes on a shooting spree! Say it out loud and you may be surprised who joins your side in comradeship, finally having found the one person who acknowledges the problem.

  3. We really often neglect and underestimate the importance of our mental health, which affects our life in a negative way. I really like the message of your article because it helps people to open their eyes to significant problems and look at them from a different angle. Of course, there are a lot of factors that contribute to developing psychological disorders and people really often don’t know effective methods to help themselves. Unfortunately, it is really often so difficult to overcome our mental issues and be strong without giving up, but I think that there is always a way out. Your article is like a breath of fresh air and source of inspiration because you shared truly effective practical tips. Of course, it is important to be frank and honest, especially with yourself. It is important to accept yourself and your problems because it is the only way to start the path to healing, moving forward. The truth can hurt and be uncomfortable, but it is necessary for spreading your wings afterwards.


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